1. Sex with a stranger or acquaintance - It may just be that your libido is high and you’re not getting your needs met.

Don’t look too much into this dream. It may just be about your active libido. Open communication with your partner is a good place to start.

2. Recurring sex dreams with an ex - Depending on how often you’re having these dreams and how long you’ve been split from your ex, they could mean anything from getting used to a new partner to unresolved grief about an ex.

If you’re fresh off of a breakup, allow yourself time to adjust to having sex with a new partner. 

3. Sex dreams involving BDSM - This dream may mean that you had an overbearing mother or father, and you are familiarly tantalized by the idea of being tied up and overcome by a love object (person).

There is nothing perverted, wrong, or unnatural with this — our sexual experiences are personal and private

4. Oral sex - This dream could mean that you were raised with direct or covert messages that oral sex is disgusting and unwanted, but secretly, you desire it.

Many people are averse to giving oral sex, although some of these folks love receiving it, that’s why it is best to encourage an open discussion between you and your partner.

5. Sex with a student or teacher - This dream may be an indicator of a person who, for instance, had a charming, narcissistic father who deprived them of sustained attention.

If you’re having this dream because you crave the attention of an authority figure.

6. Sex in the bathtub - It’s not uncommon for people to become aroused and sexually turned on by the visual stimulation of viewing an inanimate object.

Many people hold the visual image at the front of their minds and later masturbate to a creative imaginary vignette of sex with the inanimate object

There is nothing perverted, wrong, or unnatural with this.

7. Sex dreams involving dirty talk - This dream could mean a proper, buttoned-up person wants to let go and feel more comfortable in their own skin. 

You can either let go of this dream or use it as a way to explore dirty talk with your partner.

That’s why communication is key to learning more about the likes and dislikes of your partner.